Kids & Teens

In therapy, children and teens have a safe space to explore their emotions, process difficult moments, and receive support for challenges such as stress, anxiety, self-esteem, or adapting to life changes. The goal is to help them feel understood, gain deeper insight into their feelings, and develop effective coping skills to confidently navigate life's ups and downs.

What we help with

  • Anxiety & Stress

    Identifying Triggers: Many kids and teens experience anxiety and stress due to specific triggers, such as school performance, peer relationships, or family dynamics. Therapy helps them identify and understand these triggers, which is the first step toward managing their anxiety effectively.

    Coping Strategies: Kids and teens often struggle with handling stress and anxiety in healthy ways. Therapy provides them with tools like deep breathing, mindfulness, and grounding techniques to help them manage overwhelming feelings in a constructive manner.

    Managing School Stress: Academic pressures, test anxiety, and homework stress can cause significant anxiety for kids and teens. Therapy helps them develop organizational skills, study strategies, and ways to manage expectations and pressure around schoolwork.

    Social Anxiety: Many young people experience stress and anxiety in social situations, such as interacting with peers or speaking in front of others. Therapy helps kids and teens build confidence in their social skills and reduce the fear of judgment from others.

    Perfectionism: The pressure to be perfect in various aspects of life can lead to high levels of stress and anxiety. Therapy helps kids and teens set realistic goals, reduce self-criticism, and understand that mistakes are a natural part of growth.

    Time Management and Organization: Stress can arise from feeling overwhelmed by tasks or disorganization. Therapy helps kids and teens develop time management skills, create routines, and organize tasks in a way that reduces feelings of being overwhelmed.

    Self-Esteem and Confidence Building: Anxiety and stress are often linked to low self-esteem or a lack of confidence. Therapy helps kids and teens develop a positive self-image, fostering resilience in the face of stress.

    Parental Support: Sometimes, a child's anxiety and stress are connected to family dynamics or parental expectations. Therapy can include family involvement, offering guidance to parents on how to support their child in managing anxiety and creating a calming home environment.

    Emotional Regulation: Children and teens often struggle with managing intense emotions like anger, sadness, or frustration. Therapy helps them learn emotional regulation skills so they can better manage these feelings and reduce anxiety and stress.

    Somatic Symptoms of Anxiety: Sometimes anxiety presents physically, such as headaches, stomachaches, or muscle tension. Therapy helps kids and teens understand the connection between their body and their anxiety, teaching strategies to manage physical symptoms.

  • Depression

    Identifying Symptoms of Depression: Many kids and teens may not recognize the signs of depression, which can manifest as sadness, irritability, lack of interest in activities, or changes in sleep and appetite. Therapy helps them identify these symptoms and understand the impact of depression on their mood and behavior.

    Negative Thought Patterns: Depression often involves negative thinking, such as feelings of worthlessness, hopelessness, or self-criticism. Therapy helps kids and teens recognize and challenge these negative thought patterns, replacing them with more balanced and realistic thoughts.

    Boosting Self-Esteem: Low self-esteem and feelings of inadequacy are often linked to depression. Therapy works on building a positive self-image, teaching kids and teens to recognize their strengths and worth, and to develop self-compassion.

    Understanding and Expressing Emotions: Depression can lead to emotional numbness or difficulty expressing feelings. Therapy provides a safe space for kids and teens to explore and express their emotions, helping them understand what they are feeling and why.

    Social Withdrawal: Depression often leads to isolation, where kids and teens withdraw from family, friends, or activities they once enjoyed. Therapy helps them explore the reasons for this withdrawal and encourages healthier social interactions and connections.

    Family Dynamics and Support: Depression in kids and teens can affect family relationships. Therapy can include family sessions to help parents understand how to best support their child, communicate effectively, and create a nurturing environment that aids in recovery.

    Grief and Loss: Loss, whether from a loved one, a pet, or a significant life change, can contribute to depression. Therapy helps kids and teens process their grief, understand how it relates to their depression, and develop healthier ways to cope with loss.

    Self-Harm and Suicidal Thoughts: Some teens may engage in self-harm or experience suicidal thoughts as a result of depression. Therapy provides a safe environment to discuss these feelings and work on finding healthier ways to manage overwhelming emotions and create safety plans if necessary.

    Building Resilience: Therapy helps kids and teens build resilience, teaching them how to navigate difficult emotions and setbacks without becoming overwhelmed. This process helps them gain the tools needed to cope with life's challenges, reducing the likelihood of falling into a depressive cycle.

    Overcoming Guilt and Shame: Feelings of guilt and shame often accompany depression. Therapy helps teens explore the root causes of these emotions and work on self-forgiveness and acceptance, reducing the burden of negative self-judgment

  • Behavioral Issues

    Understanding the Root Causes: Behavioral problems in children and teens often stem from underlying emotional, environmental, or developmental issues. Therapy helps identify and address these root causes, such as stress, trauma, anxiety, or issues at home or school.

    Anger Management: Many children and teens struggle with expressing anger in healthy ways, leading to outbursts or aggressive behavior. Therapy teaches kids strategies for identifying triggers, managing intense emotions, and expressing anger appropriately.

    Defiant or Disruptive Behavior: Some children and teens exhibit oppositional or disruptive behavior, refusing to follow rules or challenging authority figures. Therapy helps them understand the reasons for their defiance, improve impulse control, and work on developing respect for boundaries.

    Improving Impulse Control: Behavioral problems often involve acting impulsively without thinking through consequences. Therapy focuses on improving self-control, teaching kids how to pause and consider alternatives before acting on impulses.

    Emotional Regulation: Kids and teens may have difficulty managing their emotions, leading to outbursts, tantrums, or emotional withdrawal. Therapy focuses on developing emotional regulation skills, helping them better understand and control their feelings.

    Peer and Social Conflict: Behavioral problems can often arise from conflicts with peers, including bullying, exclusion, or arguments. Therapy helps kids and teens learn conflict resolution techniques, improve communication, and navigate social interactions more effectively.

    Consequences and Accountability: Kids and teens may not always understand the consequences of their actions or struggle to take responsibility for their behavior. Therapy focuses on teaching accountability, helping them understand the impact of their behavior on others and the importance of making amends.

    Coaching for Positive Behavior: Instead of focusing solely on problem behaviors, therapy emphasizes reinforcing positive behaviors. Therapists work with kids and teens to reward good behavior and create structured systems that encourage positive changes.

    Developing Problem-Solving Skills: Children and teens with behavioral problems often lack effective problem-solving skills, leading to frustration and poor decisions. Therapy teaches them how to approach challenges logically, break down problems into manageable steps, and find solutions.

    Attention and Focus Issues: Difficulty with attention, focus, and concentration can lead to behaviors that seem disruptive or inattentive. Therapy addresses these challenges by helping kids and teens improve focus, develop organization skills, and manage distractions.

  • Social Media/Screen Time Issues

    Setting Healthy Boundaries with Screen Time: Many kids and teens struggle with managing their screen time, often spending excessive hours on phones, computers, or gaming consoles. Therapy helps establish healthy screen time boundaries and helps them find balance in their daily routines.

    Social Media Addiction: Social media can become addictive, leading to negative impacts on mental health, such as anxiety, depression, or poor self-esteem. Therapy explores the effects of social media overuse and works to reduce dependency while promoting healthier online habits.

    Online Identity and Self-Image: Social media often promotes unrealistic standards of beauty, success, or popularity, which can negatively affect how kids and teens perceive themselves. Therapy helps explore the impact of social media on self-esteem and teaches kids to develop a positive and authentic online identity.

    Cyberbullying and Online Harassment: Many kids and teens experience bullying or harassment online, leading to emotional distress. Therapy helps them understand how to respond to and cope with cyberbullying, providing strategies for emotional resilience and dealing with online negativity.

    Gaming Addiction: Excessive gaming, especially when it interferes with daily life or responsibilities, can become a serious issue. Therapy helps kids and teens address gaming addiction, providing strategies to reduce screen time and find healthier, more engaging activities.

    Navigating Peer Pressure Online: Kids and teens may feel pressure to engage in certain online behaviors to fit in with peers, such as posting certain content or participating in trends that might be unhealthy or unsafe. Therapy helps them develop the confidence to make independent, positive choices online.

    Developing Digital Literacy: Many kids and teens may struggle with understanding the differences between online reality and real life, such as the curated nature of social media posts or misleading information online. Therapy provides tools to build digital literacy, helping teens critically evaluate what they see and consume online.

    Reducing Screen Dependency for Coping: Some kids and teens use screens to escape from difficult emotions or life stressors. Therapy helps them address underlying issues, such as anxiety or depression, and develop healthier coping mechanisms that don't rely on excessive screen time.

    Parental Involvement and Guidance: Parents may feel overwhelmed or unsure about how to manage their child's screen time or online activity. Therapy offers strategies for parents to set healthy boundaries, model appropriate behavior, and engage in open discussions with their children about digital habits and their potential impacts.

    Understanding the Impact of Social Media on Mental Health: Social media use can contribute to anxiety, stress, and depression, especially when it comes to external validation or unhealthy comparisons. Therapy helps kids and teens explore the effects of social media on their mental health and find ways to minimize its negative impact.

  • Trauma

    Understanding the Impact of Trauma: Trauma can affect children and teens in a variety of ways, from emotional and behavioral changes to difficulty concentrating or trusting others. Therapy helps them understand the emotional and physical impact of their trauma and the ways it may be affecting their lives.

    Processing Traumatic Events: Many children and teens have difficulty processing past traumatic events, which may lead to ongoing distress, anxiety, or flashbacks. Therapy helps them safely revisit and process the trauma at their own pace, helping to reduce its emotional hold.

    Building Safety and Trust: After experiencing trauma, kids and teens may struggle with feeling safe or trusting others. Therapy works to help them rebuild a sense of safety, create secure attachments, and gradually restore trust in themselves and others.

    Developing Coping Mechanisms: Children and teens often use unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as avoidance, anger, or self-isolation, in response to trauma. Therapy introduces healthier coping strategies, such as mindfulness, grounding exercises, or problem-solving skills, to help them manage distress.

    Dealing with Flashbacks or Nightmares: Traumatized children and teens may experience intrusive memories, flashbacks, or nightmares that prevent them from feeling at peace. Therapy helps them address these symptoms, providing tools for reducing the frequency and intensity of flashbacks or nightmares.

    Managing Anxiety and Fear: Children and teens who have experienced trauma often experience heightened anxiety or fear, particularly in situations that remind them of the traumatic event. Therapy helps them manage these feelings by teaching relaxation techniques, grounding exercises, and gradual exposure to triggers in a controlled and supportive way.

    Anger and Aggression: Trauma can sometimes manifest as anger or aggression, which kids and teens may struggle to manage. Therapy helps them explore the underlying causes of their anger, offering strategies to express their feelings in constructive ways rather than through outbursts.

    Avoidance and Numbing: In some cases, kids and teens might avoid or numb their emotions in response to trauma, using substances, excessive screen time, or withdrawal. Therapy focuses on breaking the cycle of avoidance and teaching healthier ways to engage with their emotions and experiences.

    Supporting Family Members: Trauma affects the whole family, and sometimes a child or teen’s trauma can affect family dynamics. Therapy may involve the family in helping them understand the impact of the trauma and teach the family how to support the child or teen’s healing process.

    Building Resilience: Overcoming trauma involves building resilience and the ability to bounce back from adversity. Therapy helps kids and teens identify their strengths, build confidence, and find ways to thrive despite their past experiences.

    Understanding Triggers: Certain situations, words, or places may trigger memories of the traumatic event, causing emotional distress. Therapy helps kids and teens identify their triggers and learn techniques for managing emotional responses when they encounter them.

  • Excessive Worrying or Obsessive Thoughts

    Identifying Triggers for Worry: Excessive worrying often has specific triggers, whether they relate to school, friendships, family, or future events. Therapy helps kids and teens identify their personal triggers, understand why these worries arise, and begin to address the underlying causes.

    Understanding the Cycle of Worrying: Worrying can become a repetitive cycle, where the more a child or teen worries, the more anxious they feel, leading to more worry. Therapy explores this cycle and teaches strategies for breaking it, allowing them to manage their thoughts more effectively.

    Managing Catastrophic Thinking: Often, excessive worrying is linked to catastrophic thinking, where kids and teens imagine the worst possible outcome in any situation. Therapy helps them challenge these exaggerated fears and develop more balanced, realistic thinking patterns.

    Exposure Therapy for Overcoming Obsessive Thoughts: Exposure therapy involves gradually confronting the thoughts or situations that trigger anxiety or obsessive thinking in a controlled, supportive environment. This helps reduce the intensity of these thoughts over time, making them easier to manage.

    Identifying and Challenging Unhelpful Beliefs: Many times, excessive worrying or obsessive thoughts are based on distorted beliefs, such as fear of failure, the need for perfection, or the inability to cope with uncertainty. Therapy helps kids and teens uncover these beliefs and challenge their validity.

    Building Tolerance to Uncertainty: Worry often arises from a fear of the unknown. Therapy works on building tolerance to uncertainty, helping kids and teens become more comfortable with not knowing all the answers and managing the discomfort that comes with it.

    Improving Self-Compassion: Excessive worrying can be fueled by self-criticism or fear of judgment. Therapy encourages self-compassion, teaching kids and teens to treat themselves with kindness, to let go of perfectionism, and to accept their flaws without judgment.

    Limiting Time Spent on Worrying: Worrying can take up a significant portion of the day, leaving little room for other activities. Therapy helps kids and teens set aside specific times for worrying or “thought work,” so it doesn’t dominate their lives and allows them to focus on other important aspects of their day.

    Family Involvement: In some cases, family members may unknowingly reinforce excessive worrying by offering reassurance or trying to solve problems for the child. Therapy helps families understand how their responses may be impacting their child’s anxiety and offers guidance on how to create a supportive environment.

    Reducing Avoidance Behaviors: Avoidance is often a coping strategy for those with excessive worry or obsessive thoughts. Whether it’s avoiding certain situations or people, or procrastinating on tasks, therapy helps kids and teens recognize avoidance behaviors and find healthier ways to approach challenges.

    Learning to Let Go of Control: A need to control every aspect of life often fuels obsessive thinking. Therapy helps kids and teens understand the importance of flexibility and learning to let go of the need to control outcomes, which reduces the mental strain of trying to manage everything perfectly.

  • Bullying

    Building Self-Esteem and Confidence: Kids and teens who are bullied often struggle with self-esteem. Therapy works to rebuild their self-worth, helping them develop a positive self-image and confidence to deal with bullying situations and to assert themselves.

    Developing Coping Strategies: Therapy teaches kids and teens effective coping strategies to manage the emotional distress caused by bullying, such as stress-relief techniques, relaxation exercises, and positive self-talk.

    Assertiveness Training: In therapy, kids and teens can learn how to assert themselves in difficult situations. Assertiveness training helps them develop the skills to stand up for themselves respectfully and appropriately without resorting to aggression or passivity.

    Understanding and Processing Emotions: Bullying often triggers strong emotions like anger, sadness, or fear. Therapy helps kids and teens process these emotions in a healthy way, providing tools for emotional regulation and coping with hurtful feelings.

    Addressing Cyberbullying: Cyberbullying has become increasingly common, affecting kids and teens online through social media, texting, or gaming platforms. Therapy addresses the emotional toll of cyberbullying and teaches strategies for dealing with online harassment while maintaining safety.

    Helping Teens Navigate Peer Pressure: Bullying can sometimes be related to peer pressure, where kids or teens feel forced to conform to group norms or engage in harmful behaviors to fit in. Therapy teaches teens how to resist negative peer pressure and make healthier decisions.

    Understanding Bullying Behavior: Therapy explores the reasons behind bullying, helping kids and teens understand why some people bully others. This can help them feel less personally attacked and begin to understand that bullying behavior often stems from insecurities or other issues.

    Setting Healthy Boundaries: Learning how to set boundaries is crucial for protecting oneself from further bullying. Therapy teaches kids and teens how to establish and maintain personal boundaries in relationships, school settings, and social interactions.

    Seeking Support from Adults: Therapy helps kids and teens identify trusted adults—such as parents, teachers, or counselors—who can provide support and intervene if necessary. They learn how to communicate effectively with adults about their bullying experiences and ask for help when needed.

    Developing Problem-Solving Skills: Therapy encourages kids and teens to develop problem-solving skills to help them handle challenging situations like bullying. Learning how to address bullying in a constructive way can empower them and reduce feelings of helplessness.

    Empowering with Positive Affirmations: Kids and teens often internalize negative messages from bullying, which can affect their self-worth. Therapy encourages the use of positive affirmations and self-empowerment practices to counteract negative thoughts and build self-confidence.

    Encouraging Empathy and Compassion: Therapy may involve discussions about the emotional experiences of others, encouraging kids and teens to develop empathy and compassion for those involved in bullying. This can foster understanding and reduce negative behaviors toward others.

  • Neurodivergence

    Understanding Neurodivergence: Therapy helps kids and teens understand what it means to be neurodivergent, whether they are dealing with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, or other neurodivergent conditions. This understanding helps reduce feelings of confusion or shame and encourages self-acceptance.

    Building Self-Esteem and Self-Awareness: Neurodivergent kids and teens may struggle with self-esteem, especially if they have faced challenges or misunderstandings related to their differences. Therapy focuses on boosting self-esteem, helping them embrace their unique qualities, and develop self-awareness.

    Coping with Sensory Overload: Many neurodivergent individuals experience sensory sensitivities or overload, which can lead to stress or emotional outbursts. Therapy teaches techniques to manage sensory overload, such as mindfulness, relaxation exercises, or strategies for avoiding or coping with overwhelming situations.

    Social Skills and Communication: Socializing can be challenging for neurodivergent kids and teens. Therapy helps them develop social skills, such as understanding social cues, taking turns in conversation, and forming meaningful friendships. For those on the autism spectrum, therapy may focus on improving eye contact, body language, and understanding others' emotions.

    Managing Emotional Regulation: Neurodivergent kids and teens often struggle with emotional regulation, which can result in meltdowns or difficulty managing frustration, anxiety, or sadness. Therapy helps them develop emotional coping strategies, mindfulness techniques, and ways to self-soothe when overwhelmed.

    Executive Functioning Skills: Kids and teens with ADHD or other neurodivergent traits may struggle with planning, organizing, time management, and staying focused. Therapy works on strengthening executive functioning skills, such as creating routines, breaking tasks into manageable steps, and using tools like calendars or reminders.

    Dealing with Stigma and Misunderstanding: Neurodivergent individuals often face stigma or misunderstanding from peers, teachers, or even family members. Therapy provides a safe space to discuss these experiences, helping kids and teens develop resilience and strategies for advocating for themselves in the face of judgment.

    Peer Relationships and Friendship Development: Developing and maintaining friendships can be challenging for neurodivergent kids and teens, especially if they struggle with social cues or communication. Therapy works on strategies for making friends, building trust, and understanding different social dynamics in a healthy and supportive way.

    Developing Problem-Solving Skills: Neurodivergent individuals may find it challenging to problem-solve, especially in social or academic situations. Therapy encourages creative thinking and problem-solving techniques, helping kids and teens develop the ability to handle challenges in a more adaptable way.

    Support for Parents and Caregivers: Therapy for neurodivergent kids and teens also involves supporting parents and caregivers, helping them understand their child's needs and find effective ways to offer support. Parents may receive guidance on how to best advocate for their child at school or in social situations.

    Strengthening Coping Skills for Sensory Sensitivities: Some neurodivergent children and teens experience heightened sensitivity to sensory stimuli like noise, light, or touch. Therapy teaches techniques to cope with these sensitivities, such as using sensory breaks, deep breathing, or other calming strategies to reduce overwhelm.